One of my best friends from elementary school, that was my soul mates for 8 years ... the person that changed me in so many ways, the crazy one out of the two of us, the one that was more powerful and smart, the person I always look up to ... is getting married, next year in April :) Congratulations Tincuta!!! :D
Finding out about her wedding ... thinking about our plans to be present to each others wedding ... about her changing so much ... about her life right now ... about us changing the roles (me being the crazy one), made me think a lot about me and my life. I am in Dominican Republic, I am not getting married for sure, I will not settle down, I want to travel and to see more, experiment and I am thinking ... do I have a problem? Why a lot of my friends are taking that step and I don't feel like doing that at least in the next two years?
Besides love, is marriage a social requirement? Yes at some point your friends, family are going to ask you ... "Child do you have a problem? Just tell us ... You are neither ugly or stupid ... why can't you find somebody to settle down, have some children and be happy?" I can hear them :P And I suppose the words "I just don't feel like are not going to satisfy anybody" :D
Not get me wrong I want to get married (even though Raga predicts that I am going to divorce at some point :D), I want to have 3 smart and crazy children, one beautiful and relaxing house in a city that I love, friends around me ... but the moment is not now or in the next year ... because I feel that if I would do that I will leave behind my freedom and my dreams of discovering and experimenting!
Maybe I am wrong, maybe I am not ... main conclusion ... each of us is going to do that step sooner or later depending on his/her feelings :) Right? :P
Casa de piatra!!! :D
4 comentarii:
I heard during this week-end a thing regarding the marriage: "You cannot predict it. It depends on the right person or on the right moment". So if you don't feel like doing this, maybe these two items are not ready for this.
And more than that, as far as I know, you're not 35 or 40 yet :) , so relax and follow your dreams :) because moving across the Atlantic with a husband and three children wouldn't be that easy.
Moru
good things come to those who wait...:) and may I add, when someone fro above decides..don't worry to much, Malina, now it's the time to accumulate...the time to give has not come yet..:)
Pupi,
you see babe... you've asked the right question. Love! Well, that can be many things, it can be marriage or not, I have personally seen many loveless marriages - and that sucks pretty much - so dotn worry about hte little things, treat first tings first. Love, and Dont worry, as worry is wastefull! And when you'll love, you wont find neither the time nor the mood to worry about anything else.
I guess as I see it, marriage is not a bix in which you put most of the people and there are some in the end that get left out - it is something which you understand at the right time and this is so unique as each person is!
I Love you... :)[and dont want to marry you by no means :D]
PS: Do I believe in love? Its just like asking if you believe in gravitation... You realize it only when the apple falls on your head.
Hopefully standing under the right tree,
Mo
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